You’re not invisible!

Dear Mark, There you are sitting in her bean bag chair in the corner of her living room. She couldn’t tell by looking at you but you feel like you’re coming out of your skin because you’re in such anguish. I remember how you mentally kicked yourself, “Why did I invite my roommate
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I didn’t want to hurt us

While traveling, I asked a girl I'd known for a very short time to come over to the apartment where I was staying. I was planning on spending a nice evening talking with her and getting to know her better. But what happened that night shook me to the core.
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Check Out of Heartbreak Hotel

I’m sure you’ve heard of the song “Heartbreak Hotel” by Elvis Presley. But have you ever checked into that hotel, so to speak? I have! Thank goodness I was able to check out very quickly, by turning my attention to God.
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Neither painful relationships nor painful bodies

Having grown up in the Christian Science Sunday School, I got some spiritual answers to this whole question about sexual activity—whether to share a physical relationship with somebody outside the context of marriage.
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